Let’s get to know the Imago Theory first. The theory comes from psychologist Harville Hendrix and his wife Helen Lakelly Hunt. All human beings have mental disabilities during childhood. Caused by upbringing family behavior. These things affect the mind humen. It could be a bad memory or a gap waiting to be filled.

Imago Theory and what does it have to do with loving our old habits?

“It’s not the same, it’s the opposite” from a mental defect during childhood. Growing up, we tend to choose. Someone whose personality is similar or the opposite of our parents.

For example, if you grew up in a hilarious family. We have a tendency to want to hang out with fun people. or if the house is raised with rules Strictly we have a tendency to want to be with someone who is comfortable. give us freedom UFABET

Another case is the desire to overcome the knot in the heart. For example, if our father is very flirty. Of course, no one wants to be with a womanizer. But it stimulates the desire to win without knowing it, causing us to go to play games that are excited to win and withdraw.

So how do we survive this situation?

Don’t cling to past relationships, love yourself, try to be open to meeting new people. Open your mind to bring yourself to a new society. Communicate and talk a lot, both pros and cons. Things to improve Will make love even with the same old habits went well